They are cool, but so are you
Have you ever felt pressured to change yourself after seeing someone who seemed way cooler than you?
Hip. On trend. Hashtag popular.
Last week you were secure in yourself and in what you wanted to do, rocking with your #wholewriter — today, you're confused because what this other person is doing looks so cool that now you can't even remember what you wanted or who you were before.
“I’ve always wanted to be a writer, they say, but I saw this person doing X so now I want to do that!”
You're not truly interested in this new passion or hobby, but you've seen someone else doing well with it, so now you're suddenly convinced that this is the way.

